Dear Bunmi,
Last year, my husband left for their home town to visit his aged mum. At least, that was what he told me, not knowing he was holed up in his lover’s flat for the whole period!
It broke my heart when I discovered that as we’d been married for 19 years and have four lovely children.
Since this incident, he’s had lots more affairs and whenever he’s found out, he is always apologetic.
Things have got to a stage that I’m much happier when he’s not around. I still care for him in my own way and there are the children to consider. I’m quite omfortable and can provide a good home for us all without him.
Joyce, by e-mail.
Dear Joyce,
It’s obvious that you’ve come to terms with being without the company of your husband, and you’re enjoying the stability of being alone. If this is true, think: carefully before you make a decision about your future with your husband.
After so much unfaithfulness, you need some guarantee before you run the risk of being hurt again. The fact is he’s broken the contract he made with you over and over again, so it’s up to you now what happens next.
Whatever you decide, think of yourself and the happiness of the children first.
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